just a note to say...

The unstoppable rise of social media means that there have now never been so many ways to communicate with friends and family. While firing off a quick text, email or even Facebook update can bring swift gratification, there’s quite simply no match for the heartfelt gratitude expressed through a handwritten note. So, once you’ve returned from your post-wedding break, and after the present-opening frenzy, set aside some time to inscribe a thank you note to the people who made your day so special.

Paper Keep things simple with white, ecru or ivory paper, using a lined undersheet to keep handwriting level and a weight of at least 100gsm to ensure writing doesn’t show through. Or you could even have correspondence cards made up and monogrammed with your new initials for an uber sophisticated touch. There are a huge array of thank you cards, tags and note cards from quirky independent retailers such as the Eagle Eyed Bride thank you tags (1) from £4, or log onto Not On The High Street for J G Artwork’s bold and beautiful (3)  card, £8.50. Heritage stationery brand Smythson offers a selection of more sober correspondence cards available through its website, Smythson.com.

Pens Although the humble ballpoint has a more practical role in everyday life, thank you notes require a writing instrument with a little more pizzazz. This Anello ivory fountain pen by Graf von Faber-Castell (7), takes inspiration from ancient symbols of fidelity and eternity. The classic design forged from resin and platinum will give an excellent finish, but there are cheaper alternatives. Tradition calls for blue or black ink on thank you notes, and we agree; it looks classic and grown up, befitting your newly wedded status.

Stamps Include an elegant dimension to your note or envelope with a skillfully crafted stamp. We love the Butterfly Rubber Stamp (2) £22, Cox & Cox, a selection of eight wooden stamps, or try a bespoke design from Nooli Bird (5). For something slightly quirkier, Butterfly Punch (4) £12.50, Cox & Cox, produces a beautifully detailed 3D butterfly.